A Little To The Left...

In recent weeks of the health care debate, much attention has been given to the town hall meetings turned screaming matches. In theory, these meetings would explain the intricate details of a jargon-filled bill that most Congress members are having trouble deciphering (I don’t even think Schoolhouse Rock would want to tackle this one), but in practice they have become little more than a partisan debate over which side’s ideals are more un-American. The fiascos are a chance for one side to convince the other why they are wrong. With each side standing up and asking preposterous questions of the other (Do you really believe the Health Care bill is a communist plot?) and nutcases attempting to disrupt the entire event with their in-your-face tactics ranging from screaming over Senators to bringing a weapon to the affair, these meetings serve as satirical fodder for newspaper columnist and late night hosts, but have managed to accomplish little else. And in the end, most Americans on both sides of the aisles, see it going to the way-side with little changed, as was done with the Health Care Reform bill of President Clinton’s time. We all have the same hopes and prayers at the end of the day, that we and our loved ones will go to our graves having lived such healthy lives that we will never really be affected by Health Care Reform, or the lack thereof. It seems are ideals for accomplishing the unpleasant task of caring for our ailing and sick fellow Americans are so different, however, that we can’t even manage to be in the same room with someone that won’t be brought around to our side of the argument.
But are our ideas really that different? In the end, don’t we all want good doctors, with reasonable costs, that won’t turn us away because we would have to file for bankruptcy once we finished paying for our procedures (if we paid at all)? That’s what I hear, at least, from people on the right to the left to those who like nothing more than to have something to discuss around their dinner tables. So why has finding a solution to a common problem become a passion-filled, fear-inducing, shout fest that has no hope of considering either side, let alone coming to an amicable end?
I’m reminded of a tactic my mother used to keep things fair in our house. Being raised with 3 siblings gives you a perspective on fair that most people don’t have until well into their 20’s, fair doesn’t really exist at all. But in an effort to delay my knowledge of this fact, my mother would allow one of us to split what we were fighting over (usually a candy bar) and the other would be get to choose their side first. And while splitting everything evenly isn’t always the best course of action in adult matters, the sentiment is still the same; represent each side and each side will feel represented.
“I’m not saying Health Care doesn’t need reform, but this isn’t the way.” Or so I hear from any random person on the street who doesn’t agree with my belief about the Health Care system. So, what is the way? That seems to be the million dollar question that our town hall meetings have yet to answer. And with the exception of a close friend who filled several boxes of comments on my Facebook, no one person has seemed to be able to articulate this for me, either.
The true issue of this debate isn’t that we don’t agree, but rather that we can’t manage to come together as mature individuals with a common goal (better health care) and brain storm a solution. I’m sure the highly intelligent, opinionated men that became our founding fathers had their disagreements, as well. But they managed to hammer out a couple of life-altering documents in their time. Hopefully, we can do the same.
Imagine what we would come up with if the screaming subsided, the name-calling ceased, the dramatic, look-at-me tactics were set aside and everyone just listened. Maybe you would hear something you never thought of before. And maybe, just maybe, it would be coming from the opposite side of the aisle. That debate may just produce some results, a little from the left, a little from the right, some from the middle. And then, we might just have ourselves a Health Care Reform bill that has a little bit of hope to reform health care.

**Published 09/23/09 in Eldersburg Advocate